1'000 Dinners

Hi there,

Hope your day is going great!

I recently heard a simple but profound idea that I think you’ll love. It’s shifted how I think about relationships, and I believe it could do the same for you.

When you meet someone new, it’s easy to get caught up in their looks, their interests, or even how well your mindsets align. These things matter—but there’s a deeper question to consider:

Could you see yourself sharing 1000 dinners with this person?

Forget the surface-level excitement for a moment. Picture sitting across from them—night after night, year after year. As the laughter fades from a joke you’ve heard a hundred times, as the rush of newness gives way to the rhythm of life, would they still light up your world?

Would they bring depth to your conversations and peace to your silence? Could they hold your dreams, fears, and flaws with the same love as your best moments?

The 1000 dinners question takes you beyond chemistry or compatibility—it’s about the connection that endures. Looks fade, interests shift, and even mindsets evolve, but what lasts is how someone makes you feel when the world quiets down.

So, the next time you meet someone new, pause and ask yourself:

Would I want to share 1000 dinners with them?

It’s not about finding perfection—it’s about finding someone who feels at home, someone you’d still want across the table even after all those meals.

Take this with you on your journey. You deserve the kind of love that grows richer over time. 💛

With gratitude,
Arnolds